In ur concept, I'm probably acting to be weak. Walking very slowly. Getting in and out of car like a old granny. Unable to do any work.
The look u gave was deemed as a form of disgust. I'm supposed to do my duties and understand ur difficulties.
But I really cannot. I tried my best despite all odds to go help u in the Reno project. Maybe I'm just kaypoh. I try to send u to work or pick u up. Maybe I'm just too free. I try my best to make sure you r fed and m comfy in my mom place. Probably u shud just go back. I try my best to soothe our son. Maybe is my due duty and I shud shut up.
But really. The shout out of " what happen to him?" With ur butt stuck to the sofa isn't helping. U r not helping to brainstorm what could be the problem while everyone else in the family is trying. U cannot read the bb's mind, neither can I. And all u do if u can't soothe him is to throw ur weight ard by passing him on or simply throw a tantrum and walk away. U sound like ur maid is not doing her job and u hv done ur duties by showing a verbal concern.
U r a first time parent, similarly here. With all the pre-natal classes, all the knowledge r not applied when u hv to constantly ask is it ok/ normal?
To remind u, my body just went thru a 8 months gestation, giving all the best things to our son. And truly, I m VERy tired. True enough that I don go to work. But frankly, if I m fit to go to work, I rather do so. Staying at home is no choice cos my body and mind is sincerely worn out.
Pls respect this body with ample rest and not just thinking of when it can provide u with pleasure.
