i realised i like intelligent men.. not as in academic only or purely high IQ.. i like men with high EQ..i like to discover or know that my man has high potential in certain arenas.. i realli dun like men with high IQ n low EQ but high level of AP (attitude probelm)
my bf(s) may be good in books, writing, DJing, singing, drawing, designing, cooking... haha.. i just appreciate what they are good at.. not what they are not.. they can have a primary cert for all i care.. as long as they are good in skills that brings them smoothly thoughout the society and they love me... maybe that is the blinding spot of love..
But that is not what reletives and parents think. They wan a Men Dang Hu Dui (compatible) man for u.
I also realise that many gers like 'bad' men.. like nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai..
They wud rather have bf who sponge on them, have many other gfs other than her, treat her like a FOC maid.. then to like a guy who have been a Mr Nice n loving her for many years, treat her like a princess.. she will say there is no sparks..
Now i know why parents always try to decide marrige for their children when they were young.. in the olden days.. cos those are the ppl who makes good husbands n wifes maybe.. n u never heard of cases of divorce..
But as i go thru the tertiary education, i know that having higher qualifications definitely makes u sound more WHAO to any non-graduates.. but then it may not gif u higher salary then others.. it may not gif u better communication skills then those street-wise.. so does a tertiary education make u a better person? or in some ppl's eyes, a higher class person?
In my opinion, the word 'class' onli tell me that being more well read n well informed, we MAY look at things form a more objective point of view due to more case studies we have read? that to me is the Biggest difference between gg thru tertiary or not..
hence i op to do more part times (in terms of variety) i learnt more skills on survival, i learnt tat if i wan something, to lessen burden of my mum, i need to work, but i work for interest now.. choosing jobs that either pays well or i m interested in. I dun wan to waste my time in sectors which i have zero interest in and it does not pay well.
anyway.. to those who always think that graduates are big fuck.. just a piece of advice, we are not. u dun have to whao at us, neither do u have to hate us just becos some graduates did make it big somewhere..
we are just pawns in this system of the wittest. we are the sacrificials
