Like a usual girl... who dreams of a Prince charming to cross your path, sweep you off your feet and treat you with tender and care and shower you with lots of love whole heartedly, I thought this dream will never come true..
erm... Not that i have met a Prince Charming.. (or i would say so if I m hearing him only.. pretty charming) hee hee...
I have crossed my path with a man... who promise to love me whole heartedly, shower me with tender and care... like the way i want it..
but as we proceed to realising our dream to be together.. there is plentiful hidden 'treasures' to be discovered as a whole...
as everyone else, we once thought that marriage is only between 2 people, you and me.. a wedding should be something how you and me wants to celebrate with everyone else...
slowly... we realise.. marriage is between 2 families, your family and my family... a wedding is something how your family wants it and how my family wants it.. is NOT you and me...
we adopt, listen, follow... the kind of traditions, the kind of procedures that our families want it.. not us.. be it a 'tradition' or be it a norm culture... is up to our families...
slowly help is needed from relatives/friends.. we repeat the same thing in learning to accomodate to everyone, again, we adopt, listen and follow...
so don't tell me Marriage is something between 2 persons.. it is equivalent to telling a child that Santa Clause will come down your chimney to deliver presents..
*P/S this entry is not complaining nor blaming anyone.. is a fact i realised
