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  • Saturday, October 27, 2012


    When one's mind is in sync to build our lil account for our family to grow, one is still too concern and unwilling to portray any promise.

    If the time when u buy ur car, u r so eager to get my support. But now u r reluctant to even come to a common idea for family. If u r constantly thinking that I'm using u and u not unwilling to spend on me. Then we shud not co-own anything. Because its just too difficult to even live with each other.
    I will repay u if u find that I should. If u think that u hv been unfairly treated. We go Dutch and don even hv to share a meal.

    writtern @10/27/2012 10:20:00 pm

    Thursday, October 11, 2012


    Having hear it from your mouth, seeing you defend so hard for what you think is the best way to break away and start afresh broke my heart.

    I know the results and I know that if u intend to tell us, u have already decided that you want to leave.

    I know that I just have to be strong and hope that the others are still with me so that we can continue to fight the battle together. I will have to learn to live my life, knowing that you will no longer be by my side.

    Everyone of us has a dream. We all would hv thought of leaving this place. But I never know that your day came so fast and sudden. Neither was I prepared for this.

    Just when everything is to settle down, we all got rid of a big enemy together, wanting to start afresh and be stronger, news on re renovating and your resignation came. How cruel.

    Life is always like that. We feel like our life is always not as good or meaningful compared to the outside. We will have to do sacrificial and putting our happiness on top of someone else's pain.

    writtern @10/11/2012 03:54:00 pm

    Tuesday, October 09, 2012


    Having a husband who learns to understand me and my difficulties is really comforting.

    To feel the support of his and my parents in what we do is also empowering for this still relative new status.

    I'm happy and glad that I'm Mrs Ong!

    writtern @10/09/2012 10:30:00 am

    Saturday, October 06, 2012


    Yeay finalized a car for us!!

    I'm really more thrilled that I'm sharing the first car with u than having the car.

    Is so significant for u n me.

    As a female, the heavy burden of costs definitely worries me. But I'm so glad that it made u so happy n motivated. .

    But still to be able to share ur burden is something I'm really happy about.

    The dreams for our 5 yr plans seem do near and within reach if we both put our heart to do it. I don feel lonely dreaming anymore n truly believe that our dreams will come true!

    writtern @10/06/2012 10:54:00 am

    Wednesday, October 03, 2012


    We just watched Hope Springs. It was a great movie. Displaying the actual problem, awkwardness and lack of intimacy as a couple get married and live together for many yrs.

    Many will find it 'normal' not to hv sex due to menopause, stop kissing each other than just a peck on the cheek as it gets embarrassing, stop listening to one another as the dominant role gets too comfortable.

    So have you stop and think, what'do you think marriage is?

    An option to show that you've grown up and start a new family, living in ur own apartment? Or there is nothing else left in ur relationship so you had to progress to the next phase? Or marriage is just about expressing ur love to the other partner?

    How do you feel/think a marriage should be like?

    To simply stay together, fulfill the need for sexual desires and finally reproduce and spend the rest of the yrs grooming ur children? Or to live with each other, taking care of each other's daily needs? Or from a child's view, means to live together in a room, talk to each other, hold hands, be responsible to each other?

    There is no right or wrong answers. But what you n partner wants for your marriage.

    Till this stage, I took ard 2 yrs and still trying to find an answer. There might not be a modal tt I want, but there r modals tt I don not want.

    Marriage does not simply contain responsibility of 2 people. I've learnt to tolerate and appreciate more in life, the common obligations and the limited ability to fulfill it.

    I want to be married not only do I want to take care of his daily needs, for him to take care of me. I also want to share his burden and joy. Vice versa, to share mine with him. I believe that with both of our strength, we can achieve more for us.

    I want to be his best friend, his girlfriend, his wife, his children's mother and his grandchildren's granny.



    writtern @10/03/2012 09:25:00 am

    Tuesday, October 02, 2012


    最近看了许多古代小说,忽然觉得有些观念、思想与主义其实是可以被接受的。甚至现代人,在潜意识里,向往回到那种制度。比如:SAHM( stay at home mom). 以前的女人,十二,十六岁结婚,生子,过后大半辈子就是相夫教子。家不必她们养,每天就是柴米油盐和孩子的事。现代女性,除了要分担家计,回到家,还是免不了要相夫教子,负担没有随着现代化而减少、减轻,反而巨增。难到,这种生活就是我们努力追求,最后弄得心身疲惫不堪。有些女强人还搞的家庭破裂,婚姻不美满,孩子反目。难到这样的生活就是她们向往的?
    以我认为,女人难当。原因是要在适当的时候,时软时硬。困难时坚强如钢,在家里时温柔如丝,兼具着平衡的作用。
    但可怜现代男性已经习惯女人工作,慢慢也卸下养老婆的责任。搞得大家礁头烂额的争,争权,争力,争得不欢而散。
    回想起很多女性,在产下孩子那一刻,就想留在家里,教育孩子,全然没了上班的心思。
    那,当初的大男人主义,其实我们也都还能接受一些,只要不打女人、虐待妻儿,以我们现在一夫一妻的制度,时还可以接受,不是吗?

    writtern @10/02/2012 11:20:00 am